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| The Wrong Gift |
| 2008-07-20 12:57:17 |
Last time I was worried about my present for Adele.
Turns out I didn’t need to worry.
She broke up with me.
It was the day before her birthday, and we went out to a nice place. A real nice place. I as dressed in a new suit and she had on a red dress. One that [...]...
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| Disciplining Kids- But Not Your Own |
| 2008-07-15 16:52:49 |
So- did you guess? I hope you did. James and I went out for an anniversary date last night, and it was wonderful.
I knew Kurt was a good man, but there was something about James- and the fact that he has kids- that just seemed right. But that doesn’t mean dating a single dad is [...]...
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| Summer At Home |
| 2008-07-10 12:38:33 |
Unfortunately, my last vacation was my only one this summer- I’ve been stuck in the LA area for a while. It’s not so bad though- LA is big enough a city that you can always get lost.
Yesterday, I met a boy in the suburbs. A man, I should say. He was in his mid [...]...
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| Summer Love |
| 2008-06-27 21:34:55 |
OK, so in San Fran summer is closer to an idea than an actual weather phenomenon. But I can’t help it- I think about getting out of school for a whole three months and it just makes me…giddy! But that’s also a problem…
I’ve been steadily seeing somebody for a wonderful while now. But when the [...]...
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| Eating Outside? |
| 2008-06-02 13:01:33 |
So hello chicas- aside from a little movie you may have heard of, there’s one other big event in NYC.
Brunch!
And we always have it outside- which brings up an interesting question.
Should you be worried about being seeing brunching? When I am with my graphic designer, I’m fine with it. But what about when I’m with [...]...
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| Finding The Right Gift |
| 2008-05-27 21:23:24 |
I can’t believe it. Last time I posted, I was worrying about Adele giving me hints through her profile. Now I’m not worried. I’m using it.
Her birthday’s coming up. She’s turning 30. Important enough? I thought so too. But I’m still busy looking for the right thing to get her. The right gift doesn’t [...]...
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| Is Something in the Air? Or in Me? |
| 2008-05-13 17:39:16 |
I can’t believe that after such a short period of time, I feel like I’m an old hand at online dating. A little while ago, the idea of telling my children that I was dating somebody shocked me. I’m still not ready to do that. But I am ready to tel myself.
Sometimes I wonder if [...]...
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| The Vacation Report |
| 2008-05-09 23:53:25 |
The last time I wrote, I was leaving for my vacation- well, I’ve come back. And I have a lot to report!
As soon as I arrived, I checked my e-mail from my hotel room. Guess who had a message?
The great thing about hooking up remotely is that it’s like having a tour guide in a [...]...
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| Sprung |
| 2008-04-30 17:10:52 |
Hello my friends! What’s happened since I last wrote? Let’s see- I think I grew a lot older, the Presidential campaign found a way to drag on until I die, and oh, I got another date. Which brings a particularly interesting conundrum to this post: How do you tell somebody they can’t cook?
I went on [...]...
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| He’s Not My Boyfriend But… |
| 2008-04-18 01:42:46 |
Ok, so I admit it. Me and my graphic designer crush have been spending a lot of time together. And we’ve been on more than a date. We’ve had a few sleepover parties too. :). But I won’t tell you about those. I will tell you about this…
The other day, I was sitting at the [...]...
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| Am I Getting Hints Through Her Profile? |
| 2008-04-14 00:24:09 |
Things have been going well with Adele. That’s an understatement. They’ve been going great. But a funny thing happened. The other day I checked her profile. Something was different.
After we spent the day together, she changed one of her interests. Music. She changed a favorite group and added “Classical Music” to her interests.
Why?
Was she looking [...]...
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| Does Mommy Have A Boyfriend? |
| 2008-04-11 00:08:04 |
Every single mom hears the question, whether they’re on Match or not. My daughter heard about it from one of her friends- I never though I could bottle up the world! But I did think it would take a little longer before she asked me if I had a boyfriend.
“Well,” I told her, “I’m making [...]...
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| Moving On To New Opportunities |
| 2008-04-09 02:08:45 |
Next week I finally get to leave LA and go on vacation (including a vacation from Alan and Margo. What does that mean? You guessed it. Back on AdultFriendFinder.
That’s what’s great about the site. When I go to another city, I always have a “friend” to meet up with. And I even have a bed [...]...
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| Delivering My Crush’s ID |
| 2008-04-07 23:55:40 |
It’s kind of old news for me (I have a very short newscycle, about as long as the life of a flea). But I feel like I have to tell you what happened. Long story short- I’m on to a new man. Despite the fact that I braved my ex to obtain a fake ID.
I [...]...
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| A Second Date- You Saw it Coming, Didn’t You? |
| 2008-04-04 23:53:13 |
OK, so I swear I haven’t entered swoon land. But when Spring takes this long to arrive, doesn’t it make sense to add a little Spring to your life when nature doesn’t give it to you? Sure, my date with the graphic designer was awkward. But this week I went on another.
This time we went [...]...
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| A Day With Adele |
| 2008-04-03 23:03:43 |
Friday tomorrow. But it’s just a waiting period until Saturday. Adele and I are spending the day together. Our first all day date. What we’ll do? I don’t know. I’m just excited we’ll do it together.
Getting to cut through the procedures has meant a lot. I’m not worrying about eHarmony or panicking about when I [...]...
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| Seeing James Again- Everything Gets Harder |
| 2008-04-02 00:08:57 |
I finally saw James again. I’d been waiting so long to do it and I don’t know why. Now that I finally have it makes my decision a little harder. Our date began over coffee. We went to a small shop I’d never been to. When I entered, James was sitting at the table and [...]...
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| Finally, A Little Closure. As Well As A Beginning |
| 2008-03-31 17:30:47 |
I was starting to get tired of waiting! But I finally convinced Margo AND Alan to spend the night with me, together. I could have a diplomatic career after this (and you know I’d love the free parking). They came over to my house around 8PM at night and I was ready. I’d made dessert [...]...
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| Giving My Ex the Picture |
| 2008-03-30 22:57:04 |
Once again, I managed to paint myself in a corner, except this time there wasn’t paint (yes, I have done that before in the literal sense. And yes, I know it’s stupid). I told my teenage crush that I’d get him an ID (paint-stroke number one of the screw-me-over brush), and then I told my [...]...
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| Fresh Love Notes: Online Dating News |
| 2008-03-29 22:50:10 |
The title says it all- if you’re looking for long-term love, check out helpful hints from a husband hunter.
Looking for a hobby? Try making up Dating">online dating profiles for strangers on the street. It can be more fun than you’d expect.
Need to supplement your online meditation? One blogger jokes about online dating as the best [...]...
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| Now That The Date is Over… |
| 2008-03-29 00:26:42 |
I’m finally done with the quote-fest from my date. But there’s something that this girl has to deal with- and it’s a little tougher than making fun of my nervous date. The question is- do I like him?
How many chances do you give a person, especially when they were just nervous? I’m starting to wonder [...]...
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| When’s eHarmony Done? |
| 2008-03-28 23:44:56 |
When have you succeeded? When’s a date a relatioship? And when do you cancel your eHarmony account?
I’m not close to canceling mine. Adele just wrote back, and I got a new contact. I’ll be on eHarmony a while.
But when do I stop?
When am I not single? And more importantly, when does my profile reflect that? [...]...
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| I Called Him First |
| 2008-03-28 23:18:11 |
After lunch with Kurt, I didn’t know what to think. I feel so comfortable with him, but could he understand how life was for a single mom? Could he understand my kids?
Today at work was exhausting. I didn’t have any idea where to go with a project, and I was worried I wouldn’t even finish. [...]...
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| Finally, I’m Going To Be Doing Something Other Than Blogging! |
| 2008-03-28 23:09:34 |
I finally convinced him! I’m not used to my seductions being so…verbal. But now that Alan believes he’s a good lover, I was able to tell Margo my address. That was an interesting phone call…
At first, she didn’t know what we were talking about. And I had to tell her my address. I also had [...]...
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| Being A Criminal is Exhausting |
| 2008-03-28 22:50:21 |
Getting a fake ID? Not so easy, my teenage friend. I called up my ex and told him that I needed it. The hard part was telling him that I needed it for a guy I hadn’t even met yet.
“Why do you need it?” he asked me. I waited.
“Uh, for my cousin.”
“Is he cute?”
“What?”
“Your cousin. [...]...
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| Quotable Lines From My Date |
| 2008-03-27 21:23:44 |
Your girl in the city delivers. Always. I told you that I’d give you some of the quotable quotes from my nervous True crush. I would say it pains me to type this. But I usually just burst out laughing.
“Did I offend you?” (he dropped a fork on the floor)
“Is that from your culture?” (I’m [...]...
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| Another Match Contacts Me |
| 2008-03-27 21:14:47 |
I probably shouldn’t do it. But I spend time looking through my eHarmony list of matches. I know I have Adele. She and I will still meet before the week is over. Still, I can’t help but wonder…
It didn’t help when one of my matches contacted me. Not the brunette. A new one.
It’s a dilemma. [...]...
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| Lunch With Kurt |
| 2008-03-27 21:10:15 |
I finally had lunch with Kurt, even though it was conflicting with James. It was great to finally sit down and be with someone, instead of just moping and worrying. But our date wasn’t perfect…
At one point, Kurt mentioned how he knew what it was like having kids.
“How?” I asked.
“My niece. She’s young. A hand [...]...
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| Convincing Alan to See Me- With His Wife |
| 2008-03-27 20:53:45 |
I was finally getting through to Alan. But that didn’t mean I’d convinced him to be with me…yet. I had some work to do.
“Thursday night,” I said. “I want to meet.”
“Alright. Where?”
“My place.”
“Really?”
“Yes.”
“Cindy, I’m not sure.”
Then I told him what I wanted him to do to me.
“What time?” he said.
“9.”
“What’s the address?”
“I won’t tell [...]...
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| Asking My Ex for Identification |
| 2008-03-27 20:23:22 |
I got in touch with my ex to try and get a fake ID for my new crush. Great idea, huh? He was at the racetracks, so I had to talk quick.
“Listen, Craig. I need a favor.”
“A favor? Ah come on Little Lady!”
“Did you just call me a lady?”
“No.” He sighed. “My horse. She lost.”
“Oh. [...]...
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